Pacified

"To ease the anger or agitation of."

When you feel like you have dealt with the frustration, you made you choice, now you are getting on with it and you have some form of success.

Yeah I get angry, yes I get agitated. Not neccesarilly when things do not go my way, but when you can see a better option. Either directly involved with yourself or not.

How many times a day you speak to someone about what they are doing, how they are feeling and either decide to say your part to help, or not. Sometimes you say nothing either to keep the peace or simply because it may offend or hurt someone else. You think, but you do not act.

Maybe the instigator needs to do less instigating.